You might have noticed the new buttons on the side. I know this is old news by now, but if you happen to be one person who has not seen the blog of Stephanie Nielsen, then you need to take a little time and check it out. Bret often asks me if the things that I am doing are really improving my life and making it better, and I can honestly say that I want to be a better person and change a few things because of reading her blog. I love Bret for that because it makes me think and constantly re-evaluate, but you really need to check out her archives. She is the kind of mother and wife and friend that i long to be. I especially love the special love story that she has with her husband on the blog. It is heat-warming and refreshing. You can see her blog and archives here.